“It’s not about where you’ve been, but where you are going.”
Building the life you want isn’t just a dream—it’s a process, and goal setting is the key. I’ve always envisioned a life of health, financial security, and joy, but figuring out how to make it real was a challenge. Where do you go to learn how to live a healthy lifestyle, obtain financial security, or even enjoy life’s luxuries? I didn’t have the answers, but I knew I wanted those things for myself.
Through trial, error, and the support of my writing group, I’ve learned how to use goals to create the lifestyle I want. My life is far from perfect, but I’m closer than ever to living the life I dreamed of, and I want the same for you. Sharing what we’ve learned is how we help each other grow.
Goal setting has been the catalyst for my personal and professional success. For example, this year, I completed 20,000 minutes in the Peloton Annual Challenge—a goal I set to build discipline and consistency in my fitness journey. I’ve always prioritized business and financial goals, but this was the first time I focused on health and well-being, and I couldn’t be more pleased with the results. Now I want to share how setting goals can help you build the lifestyle you want, step by step.
What is a Lifestyle?
A lifestyle is the sum of your habits, attitudes, values, and actions. It includes everything from your health and relationships to your career and finances. Everyone’s ideal lifestyle looks different, but one thing is universal: achieving it requires clarity and effort.
Why Set Goals to Build the Lifestyle You Want?
Setting goals provides the structure and clarity needed to turn your vision into reality. Here’s why it matters:
- Clarity: Goals help you get clear on what you want and put systems in place to make it achievable.
- Focus: When you know your priorities, it’s easier to manage your time and energy.
- Motivation: Tracking your progress keeps you inspired. For me, it’s checking my numbers on my Apple Watch.
- Momentum: Goals keep you moving forward. As you achieve small wins, your confidence grows, and you’re motivated to aim higher.
Is It Difficult to Reach Your Ideal Lifestyle?
Reaching your ideal lifestyle isn’t easy, but it’s possible. Goal setting isn’t a magic bullet—it requires hard work, persistence, and the willingness to face challenges.
You might stumble, fail, or learn lessons the hard way, but that’s all part of the process. Growth often comes through setbacks and adversity. As long as you stay committed, you’ll continue to make progress.
Tips to Achieve the Lifestyle You Want Through Goal Setting
- Set Specific Goals
Goals shouldn’t be vague. Be concise, time-sensitive, and trackable. For example, instead of saying, “I want to save money,” set a goal like, “Save $500 over the next three months.” I personally love using the bucket list method. I write down everything I want to achieve in the next 90 days and track my progress. This approach has taught me to make room for joy, which has been a game changer. - Set Achievable Goals
Ambition is great, but start with realistic steps. For instance, new entrepreneurs I coach often want to make $5,000 a month right away, but they haven’t even hit $1,000 in sales yet. It’s okay to start small. Setting incremental goals helps you build momentum and learn as you grow. - Balance Multiple Goals
Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. While some people suggest focusing on one goal at a time, I believe in setting goals across different areas of life. For example, balancing fitness, financial, and personal goals can lead to a more holistic and fulfilling lifestyle. - Ignore the Naysayers
Not everyone will understand your vision, and that’s okay. Some people project their insecurities onto others. Remember, your goals are for you, not them. Set yourself up to be your own cheerleader, and the support you crave will follow. - Give Yourself Grace
You won’t achieve every goal you set, and that’s okay. Failure is part of the journey. Be kind to yourself and learn from the experience. Remember, every day is a new opportunity to take a step toward your dreams.
Final Thoughts
Building the lifestyle you want is an ongoing process, but goal setting is the foundation. It gives you the clarity, focus, and motivation needed to turn your vision into reality.
Whether you’re working on your health, finances, or personal growth, remember to celebrate small wins, adjust as needed, and stay kind to yourself. You are capable of creating the life you desire—one goal at a time.